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Anxiety
Solutions for Anxiety - Do's and Dont's
Do's
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Notice how it is affecting you and pay attention to how you
would rather be feeling.
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Remember to breathe.
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Focus on something interesting and engaging: a hobby, a project,
a conversation with a friend, an activity.
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Play with a pet. Arrange flowers. Play a sport. Watch a movie.
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Stay active in your life. Continue going to work and/or school.
Take care of children. Keep your house clean. Take care of your
personal hygiene.
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Surround yourself with people who care about you. Spend time
with your spouse, children, parents, colleagues, friends, neighbors.
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Engage in conversation that is interesting and meaningful.
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At other times, engage in trivial talk!
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Try to limit discussion about the anxiety to less than 5%
of your conversation.
- Pay attention to whether what you are doing or thinking is
what you want to be doing or thinking and whether or not it fits
for you.
Don'ts
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Don't isolate yourself. Anxiety will try to get you to think
you should be alone. Don't listen to it.
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Don't spend time thinking about how you feel. Anxiety will
take over.
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Don't talk about anxiety more than 5% of the time and then
only about your successes over it.
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Don't let anxiety get you to second-guess yourself.
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Don't let anxiety get you to imagine what others are thinking.
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Don't fall prey to anxiety's ploy to engage in repetitive
behaviors.
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Don't let it put images of disaster in your head.
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